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Monday, December 15, 2008

How Crying Works to Calm Mind and Body

Nearly everyone feels better after having what we call a good cry. These feelings of relief are not made-up. Not only can a good cry spell relieve you emotionally, it brings sense of stillness and renewal to your senses. Tears because of exposure to environmental irritants such as fumes, smog, raw onions, and pollens are lubricants to our eyes. These kinds of tears happen instinctively to protect the eye from potentially harmful vapors.

Research Psychologists wrote that tears are not only stress-buster. They also soothe the mind, and heal the body. While almost all of us shed emotional tears between 7 to 47 times annually, we are not familiar with what goes on when we shed tears.

Tears associated with emotion have high levels of protein, manganese, potassium, and hormones, including Prolactin. Prolactin is a hormone involve in stress, the immune system and other body functions. The tears are not simply water in content. It is part Manganese and part Potassium, which are both essential nutrients. Because unalleviated stress can increase our risk for heart attack and damage certain areas of our brain, the human ability to cry has survival value. In support of this theory, some research shows that skin sensitivity increases during and after crying, and that breathing deepens.

Crying is a distress signal and a means to restore psychological and physiological balance. The author of 'Crying: The Mystery of Tears’ says that it is no accident that crying has survived evolutionary pressures. Humans are the only animals to evolve this ability to shed tears in response to emotional stress, and it is likely that crying survived the pressures of natural selection because it has some survival value.'

Protein content is far higher in emotional tears than in tears due external factors. In other words, we cry-and need to cry-in order to rid our body of hormones that can be toxic to our emotional and physical well-being. Excess stress hormones take a toll on immunity, weight gain, and mood. Crying is just one of the nervous system's ways of reducing our reactions to grief and ache, miseries and loss, even intense joy.

Thus, it is important to cry to let go of feelings from good news, pangs of grief, intense joy, or recovery from a frightening event. You will be amazed to find how crying works to calm mind and body. It is the best medicine to release pressure.

I have discovered, through countless tears and heavy stones of shame carried awkwardly in my pockets, that it is important to release the pain and retain the memory. The memory of the pain helps us reach out in empathy, understanding, and love to those who struggle now where we once walked.

However, lengthen crying from depression often indicates a serious brain condition that might benefit from a doctor's visit.

As a rule, the next time you feel like crying, let it flow. Stress is terrible for the health of your brain, heart and other organs. Crying is natural, healthy, and curative. Crying is not a sign of weakness-in fact it is the opposite. Smart adults know the benefits of a good cry. Therefore, do not wait until your sadness becomes a depressive disorder."

Visually toss all your cares into the water and watch them disappear. Give thanks to the pain, the lessons learned and how crying works to calm mind and body.





Friday, December 5, 2008

Jarring the Kaleidoscope

When you look through a kaleidoscope, you see colored objects with varying colors and patterns.  A rotation of the tube tumbles the colored objects creating a new design and wonderfully mesmerizing  shifting, animated patterns swirling through detailed 3D shapes arranged in symmetrical patterns.  What you see is easy on the eyes and soothing to the mind until you see it from a different angle, and you realize that maybe you do not like the pattern after all.

 

If our lives are like kaleidoscopes, many of us spend a great deal of time and energy attempting to create the perfect picture of color and shapes as we like them.  Then we want to set the resultant work of art in a place of honor, never to be moved again.  This is it.  Now we finally got it right.  Then, suddenly, crash! bang!  Life has a habit of bumping into our carefully constructed masterpiece, jarring it into a totally different image.

For years, Laura had struggled with her belief that it was her job to “fix” any crisis or difficult circumstance that came up in her family and at work.  With a great deal of psychological savvy, Laura courageously became aware of her need to control situations in a futile attempt to keep her kaleidoscope in the pattern she thought best.

Little by little, Laura began to release her need for control, accept what she would not change, and increase her peace of mind.  She was proud of her new kaleidoscope pattern and was enjoying it immensely when breast cancer jarred her life.  After first raging and resisting the cancer, Laura came to believe that the stress induced by her old need to control and correct all situations had so depressed her immune system that cancer was the result.  But Laura is a fast learner, and she has now not only licked cancer but has truly given up another big C word: Control.  Laura now consistently accepts and trusts the varying kaleidoscope patterns in her life and, most important, realizes that she is not responsible for everyone else’s patterns.  Awareness was her first, and most important, step toward her healing. 

Are there areas in your life where you need to let go of control and allow your kaleidoscope fragments the freedom to dance to their own tune?  Do you realize that there is always a redeeming quality for an awful thing or a bad behavior?   Do you know that you can never be in control of everyone and anything? 

Accept and enjoy life in its beauty and imperfection. Be happy, healthy and hopeful.  View life as a kaleidoscope of overlapping motives, interests and perceptions that shifts every time you adjust your point of view.  Your reference scale is going to constantly change.  No matter how big your panoramic view of what is happening, you never are equipped to make a judgment call  because there is always that piece you do not know that could change your entire opinion. So your viewpoint into the character constantly shifts, and it's a factor of your consciousness and your awareness.



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